THIS month, you'll probably have seen events, flags, banners and rainbows appearing on buildings, venues and social media accounts across Bradford as the city celebrates Pride month.

Every June the rainbow flag is flown to celebrate the visibility of, and show solidarity with the UK's LGBTQ+ community and its allies.While Pride month is a celebration for everyone, regardless of sexuality or gender, for lots of children and young people here in Bradford and around the region, things can feel less positive.

The NSPCC's Childline counsellors speak to thousands of children and young people each year who contact them about worries or for support around topics of gender and sexuality. Many don't feel confident speaking about these issues. Some have been bullied, while others are scared to speak out, even to their closest friends or family members.

Nobody should be made to feel ashamed of their gender or sexuality, so for young people it's vitally important that our Childline counsellors are available around the clock, on the phone and through our website.

It's also important that parents, carers, friends and family listen to children's thoughts or concerns about their gender or sexuality.

In 2020/21, coming out was the top concern for LGBTQ+ young people who contacted Childline about sexual and gender identity, and many told counsellors they were worried about how their family might react. As they start to grow up it's only natural for them to develop and express their sexuality. Older teenagers might start dating or having relationships, while younger children might show curiosity about sex or the changes that happen during puberty.

It's also common for young people to feel unsure about their sexuality or who they're attracted to, and some may find that their sexuality changes over time. This is all part of growing up, and the best thing parents and carers can do is listen and be as supportive as possible. Ask what they're worried about, and if there's anything you can do to help. While it's important not to pressure them, they might appreciate it if you offer to help them broach the subject.

If their thoughts are a surprise to you, just remember that whoever they love and however they identify, they're still the child you've always loved. Just knowing they have your support will be an enormous help.

* The NSPCC helpline is 0808 8005000 or email help@nspcc.org.uk

* Debra Radford is NSPCC Assistant Director for Yorkshire and the North East.