CHILD sexual abuse can devastate childhoods, with its impact lasting well into adulthood.

Sadly, we hear testimony from adults who have bottled up abuse for so long, for so many reasons. They didn’t feel they would be believed, or felt a sense of shame that they deserved or invited it. Let us be clear; child sexual abuse is never the child’s fault and the manipulative hold that abusers can have on their victims is abhorrent.

I would like to pay tribute to all those who have had the bravery to tell someone. That all important first step is crucial for not only stopping the abuse perhaps, or holding the perpetrator to account but also, crucially, to getting support. Just last week we revealed that the Report Abuse in Education Settings helpline, which the NSPCC was asked to set up, has so far received 353 contacts since opening on April 1. Sexual abuse, exploitation and harassment by peers is the most common issue reported so far, from incidents such as pupils looking up classmates’ skirts to sharing indecent images and rape.

The helpline was set up after thousands of testimonies about peer-on-peer sexual abuse and harassment in schools were posted on the Everyone’s Invited website. The number of contacts so far shows that their bravery in posting testimonies has had an immediate impact not only for them but so many others. The helpline is still open, I’d urge anyone who has suffered harm in an educational setting, or is concerned about someone else, to ring 0800 136 663 or email help@nspcc.org.uk We’re here to help.

It is vital that people feel comfortable to raise concerns about child abuse and harassment, including children themselves. As adults, the thought of a child disclosing to us can be daunting. That feeling of not wanting to get it wrong or make it worse can be scary but it is crucial that you don’t dismiss them. Whilst it can be distressing to hear that a child is being abused, it is important to remain calm and listen. They might be worried about the consequences, they may have suffered threats of violence from their abuser if they tell anyone. Often the abuser is someone known to them, someone they may not want to get into trouble. A lot of children said they worried about nobody believing them. It’s imperative that you listen carefully.

Try not to offer your own views, let them lead the conversation. If you appear too shocked it could make them stop. Above all, let them know they have done the right thing. Then explain that you need to report the abuse to someone who can help. If the child is in immediate danger call 999. Our NSPCC helpline is 0808 800 5000.

Never confront an alleged abuser. You could put yourself in danger and make things worse for the child. We have a duty to look out for the welfare of children. If you have concerns, tell someone.