A POIGNANT memorial service to bring comfort to families affected by the loss of a baby or child will be held next month.

The ‘Shared Memories Service’ is aimed at helping bereaved parents overcome their grief and will take place at the Listening for Life Centre, Bradford Royal Infirmary on Saturday, December 1 at 11am.

It will be a simple event which will allow a quiet space to remember and reflect.

It is open to all – those with faith and those with no faith – and as in previous years, it will be based around a children’s story, which deals with the concept of death and bereavement.

This year's chosen book is ‘The Kite and Caitlin’ by poet, broadcaster and author, Roger McGough. The service will also feature appropriate music and poems.

Church of England and Free Church Chaplain, the Rev Joe Fielder, part of the Bradford Teaching Hospital's NHS Foundation Trust's multi-faith chaplaincy team, said: “We know that the journey of grief can be slow and painful, and that the experience of loss can be wide – from early miscarriage to the death of a baby or a child.

"But we also think that it can be helpful and supportive to gather together and to remember with others, who have shared a similar heartache.

“The memorial event gives families the opportunity to talk to each other before and after the service, and that support is as much a key part as the service itself.

"In our time together we will use a mixture of different things to remember and reflect: hearing a story, the simple making of tokens, music and space for quiet reflection. Through all these things we will remember those we have loved and lost.

“We very much welcome individuals, couples or families. We especially cater for siblings and will have a separate children’s programme for children in an adjacent room. Their journey of grief also needs support."

The event will be run by a number of different staff from across the trust’s maternity, paediatrics and chaplaincy departments.

People are also being encouraged to bring along any photographs or mementos of their child which will be placed on a special memory table.

Head of Chaplaincy, Mohammed Arshad said: “Parents who have attended previous services have commented on how helpful and caring it has been to see the familiar faces of staff who cared for them and their children.”

Muslim Chaplain, Shaheen Kauser, added: “The service gives parents and the wider family – siblings, grandparents, aunts and uncles, as well as close family friends – the chance to share feelings and grieve together as they remember their babies and children, in a supportive environment."

Families who have lost children or babies at the trust’s hospitals in the past 24 months have been sent invitations to attend but anyone else who thinks they would benefit from the occasion is welcome to attend.

It will last around 55 minutes plus time for refreshments.

For further details, contact the Chaplaincy team on 01274 365819 or email dawn.arnison@bthft.nhs.uk

Bradford Hospitals Charity has given funding for the event which has enabled the provision of food, drink and refreshments, craft materials and balloons and tags for the balloon release.

The Listening for Life Centre is situated off Smith Lane, Bradford.There is also an entrance through a side gate along Smith Lane.