Dealing with loss

PLAN: Jo Coombs, of NHS Airedale, Bradford and Leeds PLAN: Jo Coombs, of NHS Airedale, Bradford and Leeds

People in the Bradford district are being encouraged to talk to family, friends and loved ones about their wishes for the end of their lives, including where they want to die and their funeral plans.

The call comes from health and support organisations in Bradford and Airedale who are joining other members of the Dying Matters Coalition for a week of action which starts on Monday.

As part of the awareness week, called Small Actions, Big Difference, there will a chance for people to visit information stalls and talk to staff from the NHS end of life care team at shopping centres in Bradford and Keighley.

The Dying Matters Coalition has been set up by the National Council for Palliative Care to raise awareness of death, dying and bereavement and provide the support and information needed to have these conversations with loved ones.

It aims to help make dying well a natural part of a good life and through this help change attitudes and behaviours towards end of life issues and raise the profile and improve end of life care.

Jo Coombs, director of quality and nursing at NHS Airedale, Bradford and Leeds, said: “Death is the one certainty in our lives, yet few of us discuss or plan for this. By discussing death and dying, people can make their wishes felt and help their loved ones at a distressing time.

“In Bradford and Airedale we have a strong partnership of palliative care support which helps a wide range of patients who may have less than a year to live. We work with terminally-ill patients suffering from any conditions, including cancer, and aim to treat them and their families and carers with dignity, care and compassion as they approach death.”

Bradford and Airedale’s end of life care programme works with communities and health and social care professionals to give people who are dying the best possible care.

Information stalls will be at Kirkgate Shopping Centre, Bradford, from 11am to 4pm on Thursday, May 17 and at Airedale Shopping Centre, Keighley, from 11am to 4pm, on Friday, May 18.

More information on next week’s events is available at dyingmatters.org

Comments(8)

msdolittle says...
6:59pm Wed 9 May 12

great news feature i fully support what what bradford and airedale health trust are trying to do to get family and friends to talk about final death wishes. i was diganiosed with advanced breast cancer 13yrs ago.disscused with my sister my final plans and pay for a furture funeral plan which i have done and also made a will everthing in place so my sister dose not have to worry about all of that as well as greaving. i think every human being should do the same.i would be willing to discuss my views and openions with others to do the same.

mrs walker says...
9:07pm Wed 9 May 12

I'm going to donate my body to Westfield, to help them fill in the big hole in the city centre. If enough of us pledge we'll have it filled in before they get around to building anything. And it'll be a huge treat for future archaologists to dig up in centuries to come.

I'll have a Yorkshire wool shroud, and a simple box made from Arnold Laver's offcuts.

Mrs Walker - Keeping it local!

mrs walker says...
9:07pm Wed 9 May 12

I'm going to donate my body to Westfield, to help them fill in the big hole in the city centre. If enough of us pledge we'll have it filled in before they get around to building anything. And it'll be a huge treat for future archaologists to dig up in centuries to come.

I'll have a Yorkshire wool shroud, and a simple box made from Arnold Laver's offcuts.

Mrs Walker - Keeping it local!

Albion. says...
9:17pm Wed 9 May 12

mrs walker wrote:
I'm going to donate my body to Westfield, to help them fill in the big hole in the city centre. If enough of us pledge we'll have it filled in before they get around to building anything. And it'll be a huge treat for future archaologists to dig up in centuries to come.

I'll have a Yorkshire wool shroud, and a simple box made from Arnold Laver's offcuts.

Mrs Walker - Keeping it local!
Any time soon?

mrs walker says...
10:35pm Wed 9 May 12

Albion. wrote:
mrs walker wrote:
I'm going to donate my body to Westfield, to help them fill in the big hole in the city centre. If enough of us pledge we'll have it filled in before they get around to building anything. And it'll be a huge treat for future archaologists to dig up in centuries to come.

I'll have a Yorkshire wool shroud, and a simple box made from Arnold Laver's offcuts.

Mrs Walker - Keeping it local!
Any time soon?
The way that elderly people are being treated these days, I'm tempted to book into Dignitas on the day I hit retirement. But that would be letting the government off the hook, so no, I intend to stick around for as long as possible. Making my presence felt and keeping you company...

Albion. says...
6:29am Thu 10 May 12

mrs walker wrote:
Albion. wrote:
mrs walker wrote:
I'm going to donate my body to Westfield, to help them fill in the big hole in the city centre. If enough of us pledge we'll have it filled in before they get around to building anything. And it'll be a huge treat for future archaologists to dig up in centuries to come.

I'll have a Yorkshire wool shroud, and a simple box made from Arnold Laver's offcuts.

Mrs Walker - Keeping it local!
Any time soon?
The way that elderly people are being treated these days, I'm tempted to book into Dignitas on the day I hit retirement. But that would be letting the government off the hook, so no, I intend to stick around for as long as possible. Making my presence felt and keeping you company...
:-(

Patrick Bateman says...
9:03am Thu 10 May 12

Albion. wrote:
mrs walker wrote:
I'm going to donate my body to Westfield, to help them fill in the big hole in the city centre. If enough of us pledge we'll have it filled in before they get around to building anything. And it'll be a huge treat for future archaologists to dig up in centuries to come.

I'll have a Yorkshire wool shroud, and a simple box made from Arnold Laver's offcuts.

Mrs Walker - Keeping it local!
Any time soon?
Lol!

Willard says...
10:28am Thu 10 May 12

This is sad story but I think I can lighten the mood by giving me idea of how I wish to shuffle of this mortal coil.

'I would like to be shot by a jealous husband at the age of 98.'

And Mrs Walker, your post is the best that I have read this year. Let me know where you live and I will drop you in a packet of digestives to sweeten your tea, you deserve nothing less. :)

Realistically, I want everyone to celebrate my passing with a nice vindaloo, they wont forget me in a hurry

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